Tag: Task commitment is the reason you do something; relational commitment is the reason you do it well.

  • This is your life

    This is your life

    Verse 1:

    You’ve been living, in a dreamlike state

    Thinking that one day, you’ll find your escape

    But now’s the time, to open your eyes

    This is your life, don’t waste it on sighs

    Chorus:

    This is your life, this is not a drill

    You’ve got one chance, to make it real

    Don’t wait for tomorrow, don’t wait for fate

    Make your move, create your own fate

    Verse 2:

    You’ve got dreams, and you’ve got a plan

    But you’ve been sitting there, like a stagnant can

    But now’s the time, to take a stand

    This is your life, not someone else’s command

    Chorus:

    This is your life, this is not a drill

    You’ve got one chance, to make it real

    Don’t wait for tomorrow, don’t wait for fate

    Make your move, create your own fate

    Bridge:

    You’ve got the power, to change your path

    Take a step forward, and leave your past

    Don’t let anyone, hold you down

    Chorus:

    This is your life, this is not a drill

    You’ve got one chance, to make it real

    Don’t wait for tomorrow, don’t wait for fate

    Make your move, create your own fate

    Outro:

    So take a deep breath, and take the leap

    Don’t be afraid, to chase your dream

    This is your life, make it count

    Don’t let it slip away, don’t let it amount to nothing.

  • Breathing for the first time

    Breathing for the first time

    Verse 1:

    I’ve been feeling, like I’m stuck in a daze

    Wandering aimlessly, through a never-ending maze

    But when you say my name, it’s like a breath of fresh air

    It’s like I’m alive again, and I’m no longer scared

    Chorus:

    Cause it’s like breathing, for the first time

    When you say my name, and it feels just right

    And it’s like a light, in the darkest night

    And it’s the sound, that makes everything just right

    Verse 2:

    I’ve been searching, for something to hold

    Trying to find my way, through the stories untold

    But your voice, it’s like a beacon in the night

    And it guides me home, and everything just feels right

    Chorus:

    Cause it’s like breathing, for the first time

    When you say my name, and it feels just right

    And it’s like a light, in the darkest night

    And it’s the sound, that makes everything just right

    Bridge:

    And I know, that I can always count on you

    To lift me up, and see me through

    And with every breath, that I take

    I’ll know that you’re there, and my heart won’t break

    Chorus:

    Cause it’s like breathing, for the first time

    When you say my name, and it feels just right

    And it’s like a light, in the darkest night

    And it’s the sound, that makes everything just right

    Outro:

    So I’ll keep listening, for the sound of your voice

    And I’ll keep holding on, to the love we have made

    And with every breath, that I take

    I’ll keep feeling alive, with your name on my mind.

  • Just one Word

    Just one Word

    Verse 1:

    It was just a word, a simple sentence

    But it hit me like a ton of bricks, and made me feel so intense

    It came out of nowhere, but it meant everything

    It changed my world, it made my heart sing

    Chorus:

    Cause one word, from someone who cares

    Can change everything, it feels so rare

    It can make you feel loved, or it can bring you down

    And it can turn your world, completely around

    Verse 2:

    It was a whisper, a gentle breeze

    But it cut through my heart, and brought me to my knees

    It was a spark, that lit a fire

    And it changed my life, it was my one desire

    Chorus:

    Cause one word, from someone you care

    Can change everything, it’s so rare

    It can make you feel loved, or it can bring you down

    And it can turn your world, completely around

    Bridge:

    But now I see, that one word can bring hope

    And it can change your life, and help you learn how to cope

    With the struggles of life, and all the pain

    And it can give you strength, and make you feel alive again

    Chorus:

    Cause one word, from someone you care

    Can change everything, it’s so rare

    It can make you feel loved, or it can bring you down

    And it can turn your world, completely around

    Outro:

    So I’ll hold on, to that one word

    And it will guide me, as I’m moving forward

    And I’ll keep it close, to my heart

    And it will give me hope, when I’m falling apart

  • The RCT Principle

    The RCT Principle

    According to the Relational Confidence Theory, everything we do has two kinds of commitment involved: task and relational. This means that if you’re not getting support from a group or someone else (like a boss), then it’s harder to stay committed to something that doesn’t want the best for you. To put it another way, it’s about our commitment to our TASKS will be relative to how CONNECTED I feel to the TEAM.

    There is a reason why former soldiers, in a study done by Dr. Xavier Amador, committed suicide after getting out of the Army but not while they were in it.

    The reason why former soldiers, in a study done by Dr. Xavier Amador, committed suicide after getting out of the Army but not while they were in it is that soldiers have a strong sense of commitment to their unit, but not to the task. This is true for many other organizations as well and can be seen in companies where people feel isolated or like they are not doing what they were hired to do. This phenomenon can cause unnecessary turnover because people don’t want to work on projects that they don’t find meaningful.

    If you have been tasked with leading an organization’s employee engagement efforts, it may help you if you understand how your employees’ minds work when it comes to working on tasks and within groups.

    There are two types of motivation: intrinsic and extrinsic. Intrinsic motivation comes from within, such as when someone is passionate about something, and extrinsic motivation comes from external factors like money or praise. The problem with extrinsic motivation is that it can be fleeting and does not always provide long-term commitment to tasks. This means that if you want employees to stay on a project, they will have to care about it in some way beyond just getting paid.

    Relational Confidence Theory states that anything we do has two kinds of commitment involved: task and relational.

    While the RCT Principle is a bit more complex than this, it can be summed up as follows:

    • Relational Confidence Theory states that anything we do has two kinds of commitment involved: task and relational. The work and the people I get to do the work with.
    • Task commitment is the reason you do something; relational commitment is the reason you do it well.
    • We need both to be successful.

    Task commitment and relational commitment are two important factors that can influence the way we approach and complete tasks. Task commitment is the reason we decide to do something. It’s the motivation that drives us to take on a project or task, and it can come from a variety of sources, such as a sense of responsibility, a desire to learn or improve, or a sense of personal accomplishment.

    Relational commitment, on the other hand, is the reason we do something well. It’s the dedication and effort we put into a task because of the impact it will have on our relationships with others. For example, we might work hard on a project for a boss or colleague because we value and respect them, or because we want to maintain a positive working relationship.

    Both task and relational commitment are important, and they often go hand in hand. When we have a strong sense of task commitment, we are more likely to put in the effort and dedication needed to complete a task well. And when we have a strong sense of relational commitment, we are more likely to take pride in our work and strive to do our best in order to maintain and strengthen our relationships with others.

    However, there may be times when one type of commitment is stronger than the other. For example, we might be highly motivated to complete a task because it’s important to us personally, but not necessarily because it will have a direct impact on our relationships with others. In these cases, our task commitment may be the driving force behind our efforts.

    It’s also possible to have low levels of both task and relational commitment. In these cases, it can be difficult to find the motivation and dedication needed to complete tasks well. This is why it’s important to identify and cultivate both task and relational commitment in our work and personal lives.

    One way to do this is to set clear goals and priorities for ourselves. By focusing on what we want to achieve and why it’s important to us, we can tap into our sense of task commitment and use it to drive our efforts. We can also think about the impact our work will have on others and how it can strengthen our relationships. This can help to cultivate a sense of relational commitment and encourage us to do our best.

    Another way to foster both task and relational commitment is to find work or projects that align with our values and passions. When we are passionate about what we do, it can be easier to find the motivation and dedication needed to complete tasks well. And when we see the value in our work and how it can benefit others, it can help to strengthen our sense of relational commitment.

    In conclusion, task commitment and relational commitment are two important factors that can influence the way we approach and complete tasks. By focusing on our goals, priorities, and passions, and considering the impact our work will have on others, we can cultivate both types of commitment and increase our motivation and dedication to do our best.

    We can do something well because we are committed to our work but don’t feel like we have anyone who is backing us up.

    Another example of when the RCT principle doesn’t apply is when you’re not really committed to your work or your organization. In this case, even though you might be doing something well, it’s not going to last. Another way of looking at this situation is that sometimes people do things well because they’re committed but don’t feel like they have anyone backing them up. That leads us back to our original point; if someone feels like they are being backed up by others, then they will do their jobs better and more consistently than otherwise!

    Without support from someone else or a group, you can end up feeling like there’s no point in doing great work. You’ll start to feel resentment toward your organization or company, which is an indicator that you aren’t really committed to it as a whole anymore either (it’s harder to be committed to something that doesn’t want the best for you).

    If you’re not connected to your team and/or task with purpose and meaning, then it’s easy for others on your team (or elsewhere) who are connected with purpose and meaning themselves to get annoyed by your lack of connection. This is especially true if they’re working hard, but their efforts aren’t being recognized by anything other than the loudest person in the room (ahem).

    Conclusion

    You need to be confident in your work and know that someone is backing you up. This will help increase your productivity as well as make you feel more satisfied with what you’re doing on a daily basis. If this sounds familiar, try reaching out to someone who can support you throughout the day – whether it’s family or friends or even just talking about how stressful things have been recently!

    Grace and Peace fam

    Keep an eye out for this video to be released soon.

    Dean