Dean Cothill

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  • What does it mean to be a “creative”

    What does it mean to be a “creative”

    In today’s society, it seems as though everyone wants to be seen as creative. We often hear people talk about their “creative” ideas, or see companies marketing themselves as “innovative” and “groundbreaking.” But what does it really mean to be a creator or to tap into the spirit of Creativity? While some may view creativity as a purely human trait, many spiritual traditions believe that the act of creation is infused with a Divine breathe or spirit. In this blog post, we will explore the idea of creation and the role of spirit in it. We will delve into what it means to be a creator and how we can tap into our own creativity by connecting with the Spirit that infuses all things.

    Which verses point to Creation and Creativity?

    There are several connections between Genesis 1 and the work of the Spirit, as well as Exodus 31 and Bezalel’s creative work.

    1. The Spirit’s role in creation: In Genesis 1:2, the Spirit of God is described as hovering over the waters, indicating His active involvement in the creation process. Similarly, in Exodus 31:3, Bezalel is described as being filled with the Spirit of God, giving him the wisdom, understanding, and knowledge needed to create the tabernacle and its furnishings.
    2. The importance of creativity and craftsmanship: In Genesis 1, God creates the world with great care and attention to detail, showcasing His creativity and craftsmanship. Similarly, in Exodus 31, Bezalel is described as having “skill, ability, and knowledge in all kinds of crafts” (Exodus 31:3), enabling him to create beautiful and intricate works of art.
    3. The value of work: In Genesis 1, God works for six days to create the world, and then rests on the seventh day, setting an example for humanity to follow. Similarly, in Exodus 31, Bezalel is given the task of creating the tabernacle and its furnishings, emphasizing the importance of work and the value of using one’s skills and abilities for a worthy purpose.
    4. The connection between the Spirit and creativity: In both Genesis 1 and Exodus 31, the Spirit of God is closely linked with creativity and the ability to do great work. The Spirit is portrayed as the source of wisdom, understanding, and knowledge, enabling individuals to use their creative abilities to their fullest potential.

    Overall, the connections between Genesis 1 and the work of the Spirit, as well as Exodus 31 and Bezalel’s creative work, emphasize the importance of creativity, craftsmanship, and work, as well as the role of the Spirit in empowering individuals to use their gifts and talents for a greater purpose.

    What is God’s involvement in my creativity?

    The Hebrew words “Ruach Elohim” literally mean “Spirit of God” or “Wind of God,” with “Ruach” meaning “spirit” or “wind,” and “Elohim” being one of the names of God in the Hebrew Bible.

    In the context of Genesis 1, the phrase “Ruach Elohim” is used to describe the Spirit of God’s active involvement in the creation of the world. It is said that the Spirit of God was “hovering over the waters” (Genesis 1:2) before God spoke creation into existence. This suggests that the Spirit of God played a role in the creation process, bringing order and life to the formless and void earth.

    In the context of Exodus 31, the Spirit of God is said to have filled Bezalel, a skilled artisan chosen to construct the tabernacle and its furnishings. This filling of the Spirit is said to have given Bezalel wisdom, understanding, knowledge, and skill in all kinds of crafts (Exodus 31:3), enabling him to create beautiful and intricate works of art that would honor God.

    In both contexts, the phrase “Ruach Elohim” highlights the active involvement of the Spirit of God in bringing about God’s creative and redemptive purposes in the world.

    Created to create in God’s Image

    In the context of Genesis 1:26, being created in God’s image means that humans were created to reflect God’s character and nature in the world. The phrase “God created man in his own image” (Genesis 1:27) emphasizes that humans have a unique relationship with God, different from the rest of creation.

    Being created in God’s image means that humans have a special dignity and worth that comes from being made in the image of the Creator. This dignity and worth applies to all humans, regardless of their race, ethnicity, gender, or social status. It also means that humans have a unique responsibility to represent God’s character and nature in the world, reflecting His love, justice, mercy, and compassion to others.

    Furthermore, being created in God’s image means that humans have been given the capacity for relationship with God and with one another. Humans have been created with the ability to know and love God, to communicate with Him, and to have a personal relationship with Him. Similarly, humans have the ability to form deep and meaningful relationships with one another, reflecting God’s nature as a relational being.

    So being created in God’s image is a significant and foundational aspect of human identity and purpose, emphasizing the unique dignity, worth, and responsibility that humans have been given as reflections of God in the world.

    As humans created in the image of God, we have been given the capacity and ability to create in a variety of ways. In Genesis 1, God is portrayed as a creator who brought the universe into existence through His spoken word, and who fashioned the world with care and attention to detail. As image-bearers of God, we have been created to create in a similar way.

    Creativity is a fundamental aspect of human nature, and it takes many different forms. Some people create through art, music, or literature, while others create through science, technology, or engineering. Still, others create through entrepreneurship, leadership, or social innovation. Whatever form creativity takes, it is an expression of our God-given ability to bring order and beauty into the world, to solve problems, and to make things better.

    Furthermore, our capacity for creativity is not limited to the work we do or the things we create. We have also been created to create in the sense of procreation, of bringing new life into the world and nurturing and guiding it toward maturity.

    You see, our ability to create is a reflection of God’s creative nature, and it is an essential part of our identity and purpose as human beings. As we engage in creative work and bring new things into existence, we participate in God’s ongoing work of bringing order, beauty, and purpose to the world.

  • Daddy Self (Day)-Care

    Daddy Self (Day)-Care

    I have had to learn this the hard way. Elzaan and I have had to learn this the hard way. We have had to learn how to create spaces for each other to look after ourselves. Parenting requires a lot of self-care. Our capacity to care for our children decreases as we take less care of ourselves. Although it may seem illogical, this is a fundamental truth that many of us find difficult to embrace. Jesus encourages us to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. So maybe put a little differently, parents love your children as you love yourself. I think in the world that we live in today, we have almost gone way way way left and have loved our kids so much to the point of forgetting and neglecting ourselves. So maybe we should be saying, love yourself, as you love your kids?

    Love yourself.

    We all know how these days go, up at 5, prep lunch boxes, quick showers all round, choosing what to wear, for everyone haha and all the rest. The planned things and the unplanned things. Lord help us. As parents, we frequently prioritize the needs of our kids before our own. We place a higher priority on meeting their physical, emotional, and educational requirements, frequently at the expense of our own needs. We could believe that by prioritizing our kids, we are doing what is best for them. This way of thinking, meanwhile, can result in exhaustion, resentment, and a lack of REAL bonding with our kids.

    You matter.

    When we don’t take care of ourselves, we get worn out on the inside and out. We could become agitated and quick-tempered, which might result in arguments with our kids. We are also less able to think properly and make wise decisions when we are low on energy. Our relationships with our children may suffer as a result of our finding it difficult to participate in activities we used to enjoy. Side note, when was the last time you just laughed with your child? Make jokes? Played hide and seek?

    Self-care is not being a jerk. Both for the sake of our own health and the health of our kids, it is crucial. In order to be present, forgiving, and loving with our kids, we must take care of ourselves. And as we live that out in the presence of our children they actually see us doing these things and so ingrain in them the idea that looking after yourself is crucial to daily life. 

    Self-care

    For every person, self-care might appear different. Exercise, meditation, counseling, or simply setting aside a little period of time each day to read a book or relax with a cup of tea can all be part of it. It is crucial that we carve out time in our hectic schedules for self-care, no matter what form it takes. Each of us have to make this decision, whatever it may look like…

    Daily grind and self care

    I am not here, I have not arrived. We are coming out of a 3 year lock down, pandemic, 2019 shambles, which put so many other stresses on what it meant to be parents and have kids. Some of us even have lock down babies and I’m sure we gonna be hearing more and more about what this means for us as more and more people do research and studies on this. What I do hope you hear me saying though is this, taking care of yourself is not a luxury; it’s a need. To be able to care for our children, we must first take care of ourselves. We must never forget that our children are at their best when we are. “Self-care is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation,” Brené Brown explains.

  • How to start a Local Church Media Team

    How to start a Local Church Media Team

    Even though we are aware of the significant impact social media can have on church growth, it can be challenging to find the time to keep up a strong social presence for your ministry (especially since you probably already have a long list of other tasks on your to-do list). How are these other churches managing to do this? Budget conversations aside, it all really comes down to ONE THING.


    Simply put: teamwork. How does the saying go? Team work makes the dream work?


    Putting together, organizing, and managing a team can be the solution to your problems! You are probably surrounded by a lot of eager workers, from teenagers who are more adept at Instagram and TikTok than you are to seniors who have finally mastered Facebook.


    Here are 5 suggestions for creating the ideal social media team:

    1. Simplify the process

    It could be challenging to recruit volunteers if your standard start-to-finish process for creating content, publishing it, and tracking engagement involves 14 different editing suites and tools, apps, and platforms. Making things simple for them will ultimately make things simple for you.

    Use a scheduling tool that enables a volunteer to publish to three social media accounts simultaneously, such as Hootsuite, Planoly or Later. Create as many posts as you can at once rather than one at a time, if at all possible. Without compromising brand integrity, simplifying the procedure can prevent a lot of misunderstandings between you and your volunteers.

    2. Start with the people you already have

    If you work for a large church and don’t know everyone, it is crucial to build your team around people you can trust. You are essentially giving this team control over certain facets of your church’s brand, which is a major responsibility. Making a cold appeal for volunteers can make it challenging to distinguish between wise decision-making and passionate but irresponsible engagement.

    Team work makes the dream work

    It’s much better to start with 2 or 3 people who you already respect and who you know have the best interests of the church at heart. You will be able to communicate effectively and have faith in their commitment as a result. By enlisting unidentified individuals, you run the risk of a volunteer shirking their duties without warning.

    3. Gather around A Table together (with food and coffee obviously)

    Get your (social) media team together in one place as frequently as you can. The camera guys, the designers, the video and switchers, you name it. Start small. Get them in a room and eat some good food. You may get to know each other by sharing meals and playing games, which will ultimately result in improved teamwork. Ask someone to invite a friend who has a camera, or someone who has got the hand of the latest TikTok trend and be open to learning a few things in that world. We really do have teenagers who can do more with their phones these days than entire media teams at some agencies.

    Work together and brainstorm ideas on a regular basis to let everyone’s own brilliance emerge. Make sure everyone feels important and that their views are taken into consideration as the leader. By reading articles together or watching videos, you can both learn more about best practices and current trends and raise your skill level. As a group, discuss areas that could use improvement and work through issues.

    The most crucial thing is to assign duties for the future week or month. It is your duty as the leader to make your expectations clear so that everyone knows what they are responsible for.

    4. Start really really small, NO, smaller.

    Make assignments simple for your team to complete, at least at first. Start with something simple because you probably aren’t working with highly skilled marketing experts.

    Example: I’ve actually done this

    Ask your photographer to get 5 images on Sunday. That’s all 5. 1 of the volunteers, one at kids church, one of the worship, one of the preacher and one in the coffee shop afterwards. That’s all. Edit them. Use them, and go from there.

    Give positive feedback when they finish a task. If necessary, correct the person. By communicating this way, they will learn your expectations and standards and enhance their communication abilities.

    5. Be brave, call out and ask for skilled professionals to help

    There’s a good chance that you don’t even realize how many creative people are present in your auditorium (or online broadcast) on any given Sunday. Find qualified experts or brilliant amateurs in your community of faith by using social media, announcement opportunities, and networking. Visual artists, photographers, and graphic designers can significantly improve a company’s social media presence. Find a local Digital Expert and ask for some of their rime to come sit with a few volunteers and inspire them. Ask, and you shall receive.


    When will you discover these artistic geniuses? Don’t consider them to be routine. Give them creative flexibility, distribute the work, and maintain open lines of communication. Dream with them. Give them space to create. This is a new world, a digital space that makes sense to some people, they just get it. Trust them and build with them. Believe me, it’ll be worth it. The very last thing you want to do is exploit volunteers and give them the impression that their value is solely in their service. Make them part of the team, the photographers and the musicians and the coffee shop crew and the kids church team. All together.

    Let’s stay in touch

    Grace and peace

    Dean

  • If it was easy, everyone would be doing it…

    If it was easy, everyone would be doing it…

    Whether its 04:30 alarm clocks and getting to the gym or CrossFit, starting a new hobby or business, following you dreams, hopes and desires for a new year ahead or balancing work and home life to ensure your partner appreciates you as much as your boss does, everything and anything worthwhile, is uphill to quote John C. Maxwell.

    In order to truly achieve success and fulfillment in life, it is important to understand that challenges and difficulties are a natural and necessary part of the journey. If something were to be easy, it would lose its value and significance, as it would no longer require effort or dedication to accomplish.

    Mountain climbers

    Think about it this way: if everyone were able to easily attain their goals and aspirations, what would be the point in striving for them? Without the sense of accomplishment that comes from overcoming obstacles and adversity, we would miss out on the opportunity to grow and develop as individuals. If these goals were easy, everyone would run 100m in under 10 seconds, everyone would scale Mt Everest, everyone would have their own dream company and the closest group of friends, but these things aren’t normal, not everyone goes there.

    Furthermore, when we face challenges and work hard to overcome them, we are able to tap into our inner strength and resilience. We learn to persevere in the face of adversity, and we become more confident in our abilities and our capacity to succeed.

    In other words, it is precisely because something is difficult that it becomes worthwhile. The process of striving and struggling to achieve a goal is what gives it value, and it is what ultimately leads to a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.

    So, the next time you find yourself faced with a challenge, remember that it is not meant to be easy. Embrace the difficulty and use it as an opportunity to grow and become the best version of yourself. With hard work, determination, and a positive attitude, you can overcome any obstacle and achieve your dreams. The next time you find yourself faced with a challenge, take it as a sign, that you’re on the right road and that your dreams are closer than you know, that these challenges are actually a high five from the Universe saying, keep going, keep pressing, keep leaning into the life that you have always wanted and dreamed of.

  • The paradox of having children – both the greatest and worst thing to ever happen to me…

    The paradox of having children – both the greatest and worst thing to ever happen to me…

    If you have ever heard me talk in any way shape or form, you will have heard me talk about my kids. They are both the greatest and the worst thing to ever happen to me, and I mean this in the most beautiful, wonderful way possible. This paradox is the wildest thing to ever happen to me.

    It’s mean it’s common to hear people say that having children is the best thing that has ever happened to them, and in many respects, this is true. A person’s life can become incredibly joyful, fulfilling, and purposeful after having children. It is equally true, though, that becoming a parent may be the worst thing that has ever happened to a person, responsibility goes through the roof, bills go through the roof, time goes out the window and you can say goodbye to sleep; everything changes. The paradox of parenting is this basic idea.

    Dad walking with kids in his arms

    The best things about being a parent

    • The hugs
    • The snuggles
    • This insane feeling of being in love
    • Seeing everything from a different angle
    • A toddlers laugh and giggles
    • The value of new life
    • seeing their personalities grow and evolve

    On the one hand, having children enables us to feel the intense love and bond that can only result from caring for another person. It enables us to be a guiding factor in their lives, to see them grow and develop, to share in their victories and accomplishments. We have the chance to influence the world in which the next generation will live by imparting our values and teachings to them.

    Having children can bring immense joy and fulfillment to one’s life in a number of ways. For starters, the bond between a parent and a child is like no other. It is a deep love that is rooted in the unique connection that is formed during the process of raising a child. This bond is not only emotionally satisfying, but it can also be a source of great pride and accomplishment. Watching your child grow and develop, and being a part of their life as they discover new things and reach new milestones, is an incredibly rewarding experience.

    Mom and daughter hugging

    In addition to the emotional benefits of having children, they can also bring purpose and meaning to one’s life. As a parent, you have the opportunity to shape the next generation and to pass on your values and teachings to your children. You can be a role model and a guiding force in their lives, helping to shape the kind of person they will become. This sense of purpose and meaning can be incredibly fulfilling and can give one’s life a greater sense of direction and significance.

    laughing mom and child

    Finally, having children can also bring a sense of joy and happiness to one’s life simply by the presence of another person to share life’s experiences with. Whether it’s spending quality time together, making memories, or simply having someone to laugh and be silly with, having children can bring an added level of joy and happiness to one’s life. Overall, while having children does come with its challenges, the rewards and joys that they bring can be truly unparalleled.

    Where the tread hits the tar and the realities settle in

    However, and I think we all know this, LOL, having children also necessitates a great deal of sacrifice, everything of who you are on the table, the floor and every other part of the house… It could take a toll on your body and emotions, and it might leave you with little time for self-care or hobbies. In addition, because children need so many services and supports, it can be expensive. For the good part of the last 4 years, most of my money has gone to poo, yes I said it, poo. NAPPIES! All that money and all that poo. Time, money and energy all take a complete overhaul.

    Additionally, there is a significant degree of strain and duty associated with parenting. It can be challenging to be a parent and be responsible for the growth and well-being of another person. You might be concerned for their future, education, and safety. Additionally, you could experience pressure to be a perfect parent, which can make you feel inadequate and guilty when you unavoidably make mistakes.

    Having children can be a great responsibility and it is natural for parents to feel pressure to do their best for their children. This pressure can come from a variety of sources, including societal expectations, a desire to provide the best for one’s children, and a sense of responsibility for their well-being and future. This pressure can be difficult to handle and can lead to feelings of guilt and inadequacy when mistakes are made or when things do not go as planned.

    In addition to the pressure to be a perfect parent, there is also the responsibility of raising a child to be a responsible, compassionate, and successful adult. This can be a daunting task, as it requires patience, guidance, and a constant effort to teach and model good behavior. It can also be stressful, as you worry about your child’s safety, their education, and their future.

    Furthermore, raising children can be physically and emotionally draining. It requires a great deal of time, energy, and attention, and it can be difficult to find time for self-care or personal interests. It can also be financially demanding, as children require a great deal of resources and support. I’m trying to stay in the gym just so that I can be fit and healthy to keep up with my kids. You ever had to carry two kids up that dune at sards? (I write while crying…)

    Overall, while having children can bring immense joy and fulfillment, it is also a challenging and demanding role that comes with a great deal of responsibility and pressure. It is up to each individual to decide if the rewards of parenthood outweigh the sacrifices and challenges.

    The paradox of parenting is that having kids may simultaneously bring the greatest joys and the worst problems into our life. Yes, it’s safe to say that parenting is hands down the hardest thing you’ll ever do. It requires a lot of patience, energy, and effort, and it can be physically and emotionally draining. But despite the challenges, the joy, fulfillment, and love that comes from raising a child is second to none. There’s nothing quite like the bond between a parent and a child and watching your little one grow and develop is an incredibly rewarding experience. Yes, parenting is hard work, but the rewards that come with it make it all worth it. So don’t let the challenges discourage you, embrace them and take pride in the fact that you’re doing one of the hardest and most important jobs in the world – raising the next generation. So hang in there, parenting may be tough, but the love and fulfillment it brings is worth it.

    Parenting is either (NOW)(HERE) or (NO)(WHERE)

    If you look at the word NOWHERE, you can read it in two ways, and I believe it’s the same for when we are with our kids. You are either THERE, in that moment, OR, you are there and there and there and on your phone and thinking about work while pushing a swing, the, you are actually NO WHERE.

    Being present with your child is one of the greatest gifts you can give them. It may not seem like a big deal in the moment, but trust me, they will cherish the memories of the time you spent together. Before you know it, they will be all grown up, making their own weekend plans, and you’ll be left wondering where the time went. So take the opportunity to be present with your child while you can. Put away your phone, turn off the TV, and really engage with them. Play a game, go for a walk, have a conversation – whatever it is, make it count. These moments will not only be special for your child, but they will also bring you closer together and strengthen your bond. So don’t let the busyness of life get in the way, make time for your child and be present with them – it’s the greatest gift you can give.

  • Elsa and Gale (Frozen 2)

    Elsa and Gale (Frozen 2)

    Confession time, Animation movies are my absolute best. Kung Fu Panda, Inside out, How to train your dragon and of course, Frozen.

    Our household at the moment is going through Frozen 2 season. I honestly find it to be one of the most beautiful movies at the moment. Just even the simple example of how Elsa talks to the Wind, Gale, and their relationship speaks so deeply to me. (Jesus and the Spirit, the Wind, The Ruach)

    A lot of it has to do with what I’m personally going through at the moment I’m sure, but I just find myself crying so often in this movie, I’ve literally seen it a 100 times by now I’m sure but the scenes in the film still get me, the music and the melodies still sneak past the dragons that guard my heart and I just weep, even tonight I had to get up from the couch cause I didn’t want the kids to see me crying, and Elzaan shouts, “Hey, you’re missing the best part, where you?”, while I try wipe and hide the tears. Yes I cry in front of my kids and yes we talk about our feelings and naming our emotions, but that’s a story for another day.

    The character of Elsa in Disney’s “Frozen 2” I see as a metaphor for the journey of self-discovery and the courage it takes to step into the unknown. (I absolutely love both versions of this song, Idina is just, well Idina and then there’s Brendon, from Panic! at the disco and that’s just unreal)

    Throughout the film, Elsa is faced with a series of challenges that require her to confront her own limitations and to embrace her true identity. This journey can be seen as a metaphor for the challenges we all face as we strive to understand ourselves and our place in the world.

    One of the central themes of “Frozen 2” is the idea of stepping into the unknown and embracing the challenges that come with it. This is exemplified in Elsa’s journey to uncover the truth about her past and to understand her true identity. Despite her fear and uncertainty, Elsa is willing to venture into the unknown and confront the challenges that stand in her way.

    This willingness to embrace the unknown and to take risks is a key aspect of the journey of self-discovery. As the psychologist Jordan Peterson has pointed out, it is through facing and overcoming adversity that we are able to build resilience and strength. By stepping into the unknown and embracing the challenges that come with it, we can learn more about ourselves and discover our true potential.

    In “Frozen 2,” Elsa’s journey into the unknown also serves as a metaphor for the importance of embracing our true identities. Throughout the film, Elsa struggles to understand and accept her powers as a magical ice queen. This journey of self-discovery requires her to confront the fear and insecurity that have held her back in the past and to embrace her true identity. What are some of the parts of who you are that you have just kept inside? Somewhere along the way someone told you to keep quiet and you just haven’t found your voice again. Someone laughed at the way you danced at a party and have chosen never to dance again. Somewhere along the way someone or something said we aren’t good enough and we have chosen to keep it inside, located away. But something keeps calling it out of us… We hear it. We know it. Even know as you read this, you’re thinking about that thing…

    This message is particularly relevant in today’s world, where there is often pressure to conform to societal expectations and to fit into predetermined roles. It is only by embracing our true selves and stepping into the unknown that we can truly live authentically and find meaning and purpose in our lives.

    The other day the kids and I went to Red Berry Farm just outside George for a little play date at the berry picking farm.

    Red Berry Farm with the kids

    It was a day like any other, the kids played, we ate loads of berries and drank strawberry milkshakes. Seated while watching the kids I quickly needed to run to the toilet, I ran to Daniel, said stay right where you are, I’m coming now. Ran as fast as I could to get to the toilet and was absolutely stopped in my tracks by a piece of art by a local artist, Olivia Strydom. (See below)

    Art by Olivia Strydon

    Everything about it just made me start tearing up. Me. On my horse. The wild open space. No idea where I am or where I’m going. Knowing that I’m gonna have to trust my Horse to get us where we going. Gotta trust that when Jesus says he will carry me, He means it. Peter gets out the boat, takes that “leap” or step of faith…

    Elsa wrestles the wind at first, she wrestles the Horse, Jacob wrestled. I’m wrestling. Who am I? Where am I going? Just so much unknown.

    How do I be brave and take the next step? Do the next right thing?

    Bravery and taking a leap of faith are two concepts that are often closely intertwined. When we are brave, we are willing to take risks and step outside of our comfort zones. This often requires us to have faith in ourselves and in the unknown.

    In the words of Brené Brown, “Faith is a place of mystery, where we find the courage to believe in what we cannot see and the strength to let go of our fear of uncertainty.” Taking a leap of faith requires us to let go of our fear and trust in something greater than ourselves.

    It’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day routines of life and become complacent. We might feel safe and secure in our comfort zones, but true growth and fulfillment often come from taking risks and stepping outside of our comfort zones. This is where bravery comes in.

    Being brave doesn’t mean that we never feel fear. In fact, it’s completely normal to feel afraid when we are facing something new or uncertain. The difference between those who are brave and those who are not is that brave individuals choose to move forward despite their fear. They understand that fear is a natural and necessary part of the growth process.

    There are many ways that we can be brave and take a leap of faith in our lives. It might be as simple as saying yes to an invitation to try something new or speaking up in a difficult conversation. It could also be something bigger, like quitting a job that no longer brings us joy or moving to a new city.

    No matter what form it takes, being brave and taking a leap of faith requires us to let go of our fear and embrace the unknown. It’s not an easy process, and it requires vulnerability and courage.

    But the rewards of being brave and taking a leap of faith are well worth it. When we are brave, we open ourselves up to new experiences, opportunities, and growth. We also model bravery for others, which can inspire them to take their own leaps of faith.

    It’s important to remember that taking a leap of faith doesn’t mean that everything will always work out perfectly. There will be challenges and setbacks along the way. But when we are brave and have faith in ourselves and in the process, we can learn and grow from these experiences.

    So if you’re feeling stuck or unfulfilled in your life, consider taking a leap of faith and being brave. It might be scary, but it’s worth it. As Brené Brown says, “The willingness to show up changes us, It makes us a little braver each time.” So don’t be afraid to take that leap and see where it takes you.

    I see this whole movie as a metaphor for the journey of self-discovery and the courage it takes to step into the unknown. Whether we are facing the challenges of everyday life or trying to understand our place in the world, it is only by embracing the unknown and taking risks that we can truly grow and develop as individuals. So let us be like Elsa and embrace the journey of self-discovery, for it is only through this journey that we can truly discover who we are and what we are capable of.

    Courage.

    Let’s stay in touch

    Grace and peace

    DC

  • 25 Ways to Promote your Church’s New Years Vision on Social Media

    25 Ways to Promote your Church’s New Years Vision on Social Media

    Vision Sunday is around the corner isn’t it? What’s the word? What’s the statement that’s being plastered everywhere? Where are we going as a church this year? Whats the plan? Here a couple of ideas to try and nudge you and your team in the right direction…

    Right away… Let go!

    1) Use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp etc to recruit a virtual DREAM TEAM, people in your church who are engaged in social media and will help lead efforts to promote the Christmas production. Call them your social media INFLUENCERS (LOL) if you will…

    2) Create a social media promotional schedule in Google Docs. Share it with your dream team, get their input, add to it & improve it based on their input. Make a WhatsApp group if you want to share details quickly…

    3) Create a Facebook event for your activation or the start of your years service(s).

    4) Post the event to your church’s Facebook page, invite guests, invite your friends. (Your church does have a Facebook page, right?) Right? See more here.

    5) You & your virtual dream team share the event on your personal Facebook profiles & encourage others to do the same. Share. Share. Share.

    6) Post the event to any other social media profiles your church may have (Twitter, Instagram, etc)

    7) You & your virtual dream team share your church’s post promoting the event on your personal profiles (Twitter, Instagram, etc)

    8 ) Run a Facebook ad to promote your Christmas production. Boost or promote the post and get more engagement

    Create a promotional video for your Christmas service, and…

    9) Put the promotional video on YouTube, TikTok and Facebook, see number 10.

    10) Share the YouTube video on your church’s Facebook page.

    11) You & your virtual dream team share the YouTube video on your personal Facebook profiles and encourage others to do the same. Send the link on your WhatsApp groups and get as many people sharing…

    12) Share the video to any other social media profiles your church may have (Twitter, Instagram, etc)

    13) You & your dream street team share your church’s video promoting the event on your personal accounts on those same social platforms (Twitter, Instagram, etc)

    Reach out to other local organizations

    14) Find local online guides that have an event calendar. Submit your event, embed or link to the YouTube video. Local churches in PE will be familiar with http://pechurchnet.co.za/

    15) Find the Facebook pages for your city, chamber of commerce, & other local community organizations. “Like” their page. Then post the Facebook event to their wall if you can do that in a non-spammy way. Make friends. Be nice. Get the word out…

    16) Find on other social platforms (Twitter, Instagram, etc) profiles for your city, chamber of commerce, & other local community organizations. Send them a DM & ask if they would share your post about your Christmas production. Really make it a community event.

    If your Activation or Vision Sunday services span more than one Sunday…

    17) Post pics from the first day/night to your church’s Facebook page. Be sure to tag as many people as you can. Tagging will cause those pics to show up on those people’s profiles for them and their friends to see.

    18) You and your dream team share those pics on your Facebook profiles. Tag tag tag.

    19) Post some of the pics to your church’s other social profiles (Twitter, Instagram, etc)

    20) You and the dream team, share those pics. Personally.

    21) Create a video that includes footage from the opening day & short comments from people afterwards saying good things about it. Post the video to YouTube.

    22) Share the opening day/night video on your church’s Facebook pages and groups…

    23) You & your virtual dream team share the opening night video on your personal Facebook profiles & encourage others to do the same.

    24) Share the opening night video using your church’s other social accounts (Twitter, Instagram, etc).

    25) You & your virtual dream team share your church’s posts of the opening day/night video on other social accounts (Twitter, Instagram, TikTok etc).

  • Divine restlessness

    Divine restlessness

    Divine restlessness, holy frustration

    A constant tug, a constant call

    To do, to act, to make a difference

    To stand up tall

    A fire within that cannot be quenched

    A drive to make the world a better place

    To bring about love and understanding

    To see every person’s face

    It’s a battle, a struggle, a daily fight

    To follow the path that’s true

    To stay the course, to do what’s right

    And not be swayed by what others do

    But it’s worth it, this divine restlessness

    This holy frustration that we feel

    For it leads us to a greater purpose

    To a life that’s more real

    So let us embrace this restless spirit

    And let it guide us on our way

    For in doing so, we’ll find true meaning

    In every single day.

  • My local church and Google “Business”

    My local church and Google “Business”

    “Google SEO” and Google Business isn’t something that should scare us off the bat, I’m going to try and simplify as much of it as possible as we go here.

    “Google SEO” is important for a local community church in South Africa (or really any organization) because it helps to increase the visibility of their website in search engine results. This can be especially important for a small, local church because it can help more people in the community discover their church and learn about the services and events they offer. Additionally, having a strong online presence can help to establish credibility and make it easier for people to get in touch with the church or learn more about it. Overall, Google SEO can be a useful tool for helping a local community church in South Africa reach a wider audience and connect with more people in their community.

    Why is “Google Business” important for my local church?

    Having a Google My Business listing can be beneficial for your local church in several ways:

    1. Increased visibility: Having a listing on Google My Business can help your church’s website show up higher in search results when people search for churches in your area.
    2. Connect with your community: Google My Business allows you to share information about your church, such as your service times, location, and contact information, making it easier for people in your community to find and connect with you.
    3. Online presence: Having a listing on Google My Business can help to establish your church’s online presence and make it easier for people to learn about your church and the services you offer.
    4. Customer reviews: Google My Business allows customers to leave reviews of your church, which can help to build credibility and establish your church as a trusted place of worship in your community.
    5. Insights: The Google My Business dashboard provides insights about how people are interacting with your listing, such as how many people have viewed your listing and how they found it. This can help you understand the effectiveness of your online presence and make any necessary adjustments.

    How to setup Google Business for my local church

    To set up your church’s Google My Business listing, follow these steps:

    1. Go to the Google My Business website (https://www.google.com/business/) and click “Start now” to begin the process of creating a listing.
    2. Enter your church’s name and address. If your church has a physical location that is open to the public, you can also add your phone number and website.
    3. Choose the category that best describes your church (e.g., “church,” “place of worship,” etc.) and add any additional information about your church that you would like to include (e.g., services offered, mission statement, etc.).
    4. Verify your listing by choosing the option that is most convenient for you. This may involve receiving a postcard in the mail with a verification code, or verifying by phone or email.
    5. Once your listing has been verified, you can begin to manage it by logging in to the Google My Business dashboard. From here, you can add photos, update your hours of operation, and respond to customer reviews.

    I hope this help answer some of your questions around some “Google SEO” and how it links up with setting up your “Google Business”. Here is another article related to why SEO is so key in more depth.

    Look forward to hearing from you.

    Grace and peace

    Dean

  • What is the difference between “resting for” something and “resting from” something…

    What is the difference between “resting for” something and “resting from” something…

    You ask anyone who has run a race, hit the gym or finished an event, you wanna do that again? They will say “absolutely”, but if you ask them, you wanna do that again right now? They’ll say, “No thanks, gotta get some rest first…”

    At its most basic level, resting for an activity refers to the idea of preparing oneself for an upcoming task or challenge. This might involve physical preparation, such as stretching or warming up before a workout or game, or it might involve mental or emotional preparation, such as taking a few deep breaths before a big presentation or calming oneself before a stressful meeting. Essentially, resting for an activity is about getting ourselves ready to take on whatever lies ahead.

    In contrast, resting from an activity refers to the idea of taking a break after we have completed a task or challenge. This might involve physically resting our bodies after a workout or mentally decompressing after a long day at work. Resting from an activity is about allowing ourselves time to recharge and recover, both physically and mentally, so that we can be ready to tackle the next thing that comes our way.

    So why is it important to differentiate between these two forms of rest as we start 2023?

    For one thing, it helps us to be more mindful of our own needs and to be more intentional about how we care for ourselves. It can be easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life, and to push ourselves too hard without taking adequate time to rest and recharge. By recognizing the importance of both resting for an activity and resting from an activity, we can be more intentional about building rest into our lives in a way that allows us to be more resilient and better equipped to handle the challenges that come our way.

    This is an idea that Brené Brown has explored in her work on vulnerability and wholehearted living. In her TED Talk on “The Power of Vulnerability,” Brown discusses the importance of cultivating a sense of belonging and connection in our lives, and how this requires us to be vulnerable and open to the ups and downs of life. But being vulnerable and open also requires us to take care of ourselves, to be mindful of our own needs and to practice self-compassion. This means taking the time to rest and recharge, both before and after the challenges that we face.

    For Brown, resting is not just a matter of physical or mental recovery, but also a way to connect with ourselves and with the people around us. She writes, “Rest is not the absence of work. Rest is not the absence of striving. Rest is the presence of worth. It’s the presence of love and connection.” In other words, resting is about taking time to be present with ourselves and with others, and to recognize the inherent worth and value that we bring to the world. This requires us to be intentional about building rest into our lives, and to be mindful of when we need to rest for an activity and when we need to rest from an activity.

    Here are a few ways to incorporate both resting for an activity and resting from an activity into your daily routine:

    • Take breaks between tasks: It’s important to allow yourself time to rest and recharge between tasks, particularly if you are working on something mentally or emotionally demanding. Taking breaks can help you to refocus and feel rejuvenated, rather than burnt out.
    • Get enough sleep: Sleep is crucial for both physical and mental recovery, so it’s important to prioritize getting enough sleep every night. This means establishing a regular sleep schedule, creating a relaxing bedtime routine, and taking steps to create a sleep-friendly environment (such as keeping your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet).
    • Engage in relaxation techniques: There are many different techniques that can help you to relax and recharge, such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness practices. Experiment with different techniques to find what works best for you, and make time for relaxation on a daily basis.
    • Connect with others: Building connections with others is an important part of wholehearted living, and it can also be an important form of rest and recharge. Whether it’s spending quality time with friends and family, joining a social group, or participating in a hobby or activity that you enjoy, taking time to connect with others can be a great way to restore your sense of balance and well-being.
    • Prioritize self-care: Finally, it’s important to prioritize self-care in your daily routine. This might mean setting aside time for a hobby or activity that you enjoy, taking a relaxing bath or shower, or indulging in a favorite treat. Whatever it is that helps you to feel cared for and nourished, make sure to make time for it in your schedule.

    Balance is so important in all of the ideas above, find your rhythm, find your pace, rest for and rest from various activities. By incorporating these practices into your daily routine, you can be more intentional about resting for an activity and resting from an activity, and build more resilience and well-being into your life. Remember, rest is not just about physical or mental recovery, but also about cultivating a sense of connection and worth, and taking time to be present with yourself and those around you. By taking the time to rest, you can better prepare yourself for the challenges ahead and live a more wholehearted and fulfilling life.

    Much love

    Dean